You may have been asked to talk dirty to someone at least once?
You should know that talking dirty to men gives them an unusual high unlike anything else. It is highly arousing and intoxicating.
Knowing why he loves it when you talk dirty gives you an unfair advantage – You can make him go wild.
Dirty talk heightens all of his senses and makes everything that much more arousing for him. If you have a ladylike public persona but behind closed doors you become a dirty talking sex maniac – this change in persona will give him a huge excitement.
He will feel empowered by the notion that only he can make you talk dirty.
Most men are helplessly drawn to women who aren’t afraid to express themselves sexually. He doesn’t have to play guessing games as to how to turn you on when you tell him exactly what you want.
Dirty talk cuts right through all the gray and speaks to him clearly. When you talk dirty, not only are YOU 100% present and in the moment, it proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are enjoying yourself.
But talking dirty requires skill, as one false move and you will ruin the situation. Not all women are comfortable talking dirty, even in front of their partners.
You really shouldn’t let your fears stop you from incorporating this fun technique into your sex life! Three easy ways to ease into naughty talk are to:
1.Start by texting: A simple “I can’t stop thinking about…” followed by a message like “you naked” or “the way you satisfied me last night” or “how bad I want you right now” are ways to get your point across without being totally explicit.
2.Give a naughty play-by-play: When you are having sex, you can describe out loud how much you love what he’s doing. Tell him how good he feels, tell him you don’t want him to stop, or give him directions on what to do next.
3.Take a deep breath and let it fly: It helps to think of getting into character. What would the naughty vixen version of you say to him?
Play that role and don’t censor what dirty words fly out of your mouth!
Q: How does dirty talk make him feel?
A: He feels like a rockstar sex god! nothing less..
When you let loose with a string of moans and screams mixed with a variety of sexy play-by-plays and dirty directives, you show him just how much you LOVE what he’s doing to you. Your unbridled expressions of bliss tell him in no uncertain terms that he’s rocking your socks.
You see, men are hard-wired in their brains to please us sexually.
This goes all the way back to cave man days. However, in modern life, there are so many mixed signals both genders give, that can get in the way of him knowing he’s “done his job” of satisfying you.
Dirty talk cuts right through all the gray and speaks to him clearly. And we all know by now, that men need clear signals to know what to do. (learn about the not so blunt obsession phrases here)
Q: What is it exactly that turns him on?
A: Your confidence slays him..
A woman who can confidently use dirty talk to get what she wants in bed is downright seductive. Most men are helplessly drawn to women who aren’t afraid to express themselves sexually. He doesn’t have to play guessing games as to how to turn you on when you tell him exactly what you want.
And your use of dirty talk clues him in that you are far from uptight or inhibited. A good time is in store for you both!
Want to learn more about how to be more confident? read the article The Secret To Irresistible Confidence here.
Q: Is there any science behind dirty talk?
A: Dirty talk equals enthusiasm
Enthusiasm is such a huge turn-on for men. In fact, enthusiasm is consistently ranked as the #1 thing that makes a man feel like sex is awesome.
Think about it, a quiet partner can be misunderstood as a bored or distracted partner, and that can put a big damper on the sexy mood. He ends up wondering if he’s pleasing you which can bring up insecurities for him.
When you talk dirty, not only are YOU 100% present and in the moment, it proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are enjoying yourself. That level of engagement with what’s happening between you two validates that he’s pleasing you, refer to #2 above!
All of the reasons above activate different chemicals in his brain and are hitting some of the big triggers for his sex drive. That is some of the science behind talking dirty.
Want more science? Check out this short video
Of course, not every woman feels comfortable launching into dirty talk, and if that sounds like you, you are not alone.
If you’ve thought “I’m too shy to talk dirty!” or you simply want to know exactly how to talk dirty to a man I’d love to show you! All I ask is you don’t let your fears stop you from incorporating this fun technique into your sex life!
Click the link below to learn the three easy ways to ease into naughty talk.
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